Article
06 Dec 2011
Many of the Talk Many Achievements
Aulia Rahman, SH., IBH Certified Hypnotherapist
By: Aulia Rahman Pak Guru, SH.,CHt. IBH
Presented on October 14, 2011 at Carolina Radio Am 1080 KHz
What nonsense complaints by parents about their children's behavior, which often began his sullen, moody, locked himself and others. But when there are problems that parents consult on possible reasonable because the action was an attempt to form any parental affection by visiting educational consultants or experts in child psychology, in fact this phenomenon is common among families with middle and upper levels of economy class, because the circles are usually have free time and considerable financial (parent as an officer in a company even as its top leader while making it easy to leave his job without any reduction in financial support from the company) to care for and raise their children exclusively.
Meanwhile, if we want to remember and see our little times, relatives, friends and even television shows that depict the life of a rural state. then that we met on the above phenomenon we will not get, an event (either due to viral diseases or psychological factors) that occur in a classroom in rural communities tend perekonominya medium we can say is always associated with traditions or customs applicable diwilayahnya, yet again be reviewed with them the kind of education class education consultants or experts in child psychology will not be ogled by many rural communities and the economy class and middle education.
In the 21st century phenomenon that happens all the above is not rare to see even if we are to stand in front of the entrance to the office or educational consultant child psychologist, so that we can encounter is not going to ever find an empty waiting room of the guest what else in the metropolis such as Surabaya, it is increasingly clear that in this modern age people are increasingly open about the need for education to children at an early age despite not showing the numbers 100 percent.
Friends of success, from the description above we can take the conclusion that the modern age the parents' complaints increasingly varied, complex and as parents we should not look at one eye on the phenomenon of aberrant behavior that occurs in our children, if we re-read the above problems, I describe only about cases that have a negative impact, but there are real issues not only affect negaif but the impact of this problem can be likened to two blades. mean anything, if we as parents can read the situation and help problem children, then the perfect accomplishment and pride that can be felt by our children, but if we as parents are less intelligent in and read closely the behavior that seems less good it will all be visible then niscahya as things that make us angry we will be embarrassed even having to come to the call for the actions of BK teachers who have a child we did, indeed for the general case this problem is still considered to be the case or problem for children because it can interfere with his friend when the learning process.
I raised this issue from one of our friend request to join the facebook group wonderfulsucces. Our friend asks her daughter problems, this time he was 9 years old and was sitting dibangku third grade elementary school, according to the story told to the author, his daughter often create a scene in his class, even the guardian class is not uncommon to call the mother of this child for the purpose so that parents can also help advise their children to class does not make a scene anymore so it does not interfere with the learning process.
Successful friend, boisterous or noisy language began as a simple act of conversation with a high volume or low volume but talks with talks with the intensity of the long and contains information that is not how important (usually stories, jokes, or the expression of her children who can not hold on so as not disclosed) may be that's what I can describe about the intended''noisy''and this often occurs in children usually when the child tells about something he had experienced or happened to his friends with a long duration or high volume to interfere with other friends.
Actually it is when viewed from the science education is a natural thing, why is that?? In the syllabus of learning a teacher in the column to the Basic Competence learning material teacher retell familiar with the term, and to present and discuss the third term in pedagogy were all using the sense of taste / talk to the child's mouth, so initinya what if there are still teachers who are still questioned the excessive activity in verbal child then perhaps it could be less master teacher classroom management or less able to direct the learning materials so that students can be absorbed and able to take advantage of a child who is seen as a flaw by some people.
Why Kids Much Talk
Children who talk much different with a naughty child, when we see from the activity behavior of children much talk in activity will tend to use their mouths to indulge (talk continues) whereas it could be mischievous activity using motion kinestetisnya, start the child can not sit still always annoying anarchism as a friend to do a fight, so if your child is one that is quite a lot of talk, I suggest you give thanks to Allah, why because a lot of talk is a form of intelligence. In a study in meticulous and found by Howard Gardner experts and education experts at Harvard University in America.
According to Gardner, people have various kinds of intelligence possessed since she was born and evolved following the growth process of the man himself, in his research Gardner says there are eight intelligences who then called multiple intelligences or plural in English Gardner called the Multiple Intelligence, and one of the intelligence that is linguistic or verbal intelligence, why it is called verbal or linguistic intelligence? Because according to Gardner's research has the intelligence of those children who usually does a lot of talking and unique in solving the problem of the children also prefer to talk than to write something, silent or otherwise.
Factors Affecting Children Much Talk
In the tradition or indigenous communities in Indonesia there are some tribes that say if a child under five in its development can be quickly able to speak it is believed the child would become smart kids. As for some of the factors that affect the child much to say, the first factor as to what has been revealed by the factor of intelligence Howard Gardner multiple intelligence verbal or linguistic intelligence which we can conclude the child was talkative and directed the children are getting accomplished.
The second factor is the discipline, the parents are very influential family in children, the rules of discipline to the child's parents may also be a factor the child will be a lot of talk, maybe we've met children who are less polite in speech or in a family environment for children who speak no manners instilled by his parents so that the children in the sentence there is no upload pembicaraaannya-ungguh to older people.
The third factor of economic and educational status of parents, in family economic status and low education (education here does not mean parents do not know mengajarkanhal manners and kindness to the child) then presumably less terorganisirnya family functioning, as we all know parents as primary educators at home should be monitor and educate their children properly. when all functions of a parent does not run then it would catch a lot of children outside the customs house for less filterasinya diasup by a child.
Many of the Talk Many Achievements
If you are a parent who has been blessed with Allah talkative child, then be thankful and make your child a lot of talk a lot of achievements, when we see successful people in this world they are also composed of children who talk much, when we mention one by one Oprah Winfrey is a successful example in the event confidante to the international level, so as to invite him in a certain event event organizer jahu days must schedule and pay rates are expensive, the second to Indonesia we know the local Sherina Munaf, music presenter who has a distinctive sound timber , just as happened in Operah Winfrey to invite Choky in an event we need to match the schedule and pay the cost of expensive too.
So if we can direct those who have verbal intelligence Inshallah their success can be easily achieved, how??
Talk Anything you do not ever try to limit the children who have verbal intelligence, why because it may interfere with psychological pressure. Then what?? The answer is let them talk about anything and at any time if necessary, make a kind of reporter every day to your news reader, for example they can about the incident during school or another, their desire would desire you can also channeled valuable information from the activities of your children.
Teach your children to reason Verbal or linguistic intelligence has a record of his brain power is very strong so ask questions that contain the questions therein so that they can make sense of the answer, do not give them the answer can only answer yes or no but give questions that make them will think long and explain at length.
Repeating a story often to invite our children walk a different place every week or every month after that try to submit meets these challenges to your child fatherly menceritaka vacation trip back from early to late with a tape recorder to record your voice, how it can also help sharpen Verbal intelligence of your child.
Believe any lack of what we have received from Allah is a tremendous advantage that is not necessarily owned by others, and do not look at one eye on your child's weaknesses, this article may be useful. Distributes your input and suggestions to the facebook group, or click on the wonderful success of our blog or http://rumahhypnorelaxation.co.cc http://www.wonderfulsuccessmotivator.blogspot.com
Presented on October 14, 2011 at Carolina Radio Am 1080 KHz
What nonsense complaints by parents about their children's behavior, which often began his sullen, moody, locked himself and others. But when there are problems that parents consult on possible reasonable because the action was an attempt to form any parental affection by visiting educational consultants or experts in child psychology, in fact this phenomenon is common among families with middle and upper levels of economy class, because the circles are usually have free time and considerable financial (parent as an officer in a company even as its top leader while making it easy to leave his job without any reduction in financial support from the company) to care for and raise their children exclusively.
Meanwhile, if we want to remember and see our little times, relatives, friends and even television shows that depict the life of a rural state. then that we met on the above phenomenon we will not get, an event (either due to viral diseases or psychological factors) that occur in a classroom in rural communities tend perekonominya medium we can say is always associated with traditions or customs applicable diwilayahnya, yet again be reviewed with them the kind of education class education consultants or experts in child psychology will not be ogled by many rural communities and the economy class and middle education.
In the 21st century phenomenon that happens all the above is not rare to see even if we are to stand in front of the entrance to the office or educational consultant child psychologist, so that we can encounter is not going to ever find an empty waiting room of the guest what else in the metropolis such as Surabaya, it is increasingly clear that in this modern age people are increasingly open about the need for education to children at an early age despite not showing the numbers 100 percent.
Friends of success, from the description above we can take the conclusion that the modern age the parents' complaints increasingly varied, complex and as parents we should not look at one eye on the phenomenon of aberrant behavior that occurs in our children, if we re-read the above problems, I describe only about cases that have a negative impact, but there are real issues not only affect negaif but the impact of this problem can be likened to two blades. mean anything, if we as parents can read the situation and help problem children, then the perfect accomplishment and pride that can be felt by our children, but if we as parents are less intelligent in and read closely the behavior that seems less good it will all be visible then niscahya as things that make us angry we will be embarrassed even having to come to the call for the actions of BK teachers who have a child we did, indeed for the general case this problem is still considered to be the case or problem for children because it can interfere with his friend when the learning process.
I raised this issue from one of our friend request to join the facebook group wonderfulsucces. Our friend asks her daughter problems, this time he was 9 years old and was sitting dibangku third grade elementary school, according to the story told to the author, his daughter often create a scene in his class, even the guardian class is not uncommon to call the mother of this child for the purpose so that parents can also help advise their children to class does not make a scene anymore so it does not interfere with the learning process.
Successful friend, boisterous or noisy language began as a simple act of conversation with a high volume or low volume but talks with talks with the intensity of the long and contains information that is not how important (usually stories, jokes, or the expression of her children who can not hold on so as not disclosed) may be that's what I can describe about the intended''noisy''and this often occurs in children usually when the child tells about something he had experienced or happened to his friends with a long duration or high volume to interfere with other friends.
Actually it is when viewed from the science education is a natural thing, why is that?? In the syllabus of learning a teacher in the column to the Basic Competence learning material teacher retell familiar with the term, and to present and discuss the third term in pedagogy were all using the sense of taste / talk to the child's mouth, so initinya what if there are still teachers who are still questioned the excessive activity in verbal child then perhaps it could be less master teacher classroom management or less able to direct the learning materials so that students can be absorbed and able to take advantage of a child who is seen as a flaw by some people.
Why Kids Much Talk
Children who talk much different with a naughty child, when we see from the activity behavior of children much talk in activity will tend to use their mouths to indulge (talk continues) whereas it could be mischievous activity using motion kinestetisnya, start the child can not sit still always annoying anarchism as a friend to do a fight, so if your child is one that is quite a lot of talk, I suggest you give thanks to Allah, why because a lot of talk is a form of intelligence. In a study in meticulous and found by Howard Gardner experts and education experts at Harvard University in America.
According to Gardner, people have various kinds of intelligence possessed since she was born and evolved following the growth process of the man himself, in his research Gardner says there are eight intelligences who then called multiple intelligences or plural in English Gardner called the Multiple Intelligence, and one of the intelligence that is linguistic or verbal intelligence, why it is called verbal or linguistic intelligence? Because according to Gardner's research has the intelligence of those children who usually does a lot of talking and unique in solving the problem of the children also prefer to talk than to write something, silent or otherwise.
Factors Affecting Children Much Talk
In the tradition or indigenous communities in Indonesia there are some tribes that say if a child under five in its development can be quickly able to speak it is believed the child would become smart kids. As for some of the factors that affect the child much to say, the first factor as to what has been revealed by the factor of intelligence Howard Gardner multiple intelligence verbal or linguistic intelligence which we can conclude the child was talkative and directed the children are getting accomplished.
The second factor is the discipline, the parents are very influential family in children, the rules of discipline to the child's parents may also be a factor the child will be a lot of talk, maybe we've met children who are less polite in speech or in a family environment for children who speak no manners instilled by his parents so that the children in the sentence there is no upload pembicaraaannya-ungguh to older people.
The third factor of economic and educational status of parents, in family economic status and low education (education here does not mean parents do not know mengajarkanhal manners and kindness to the child) then presumably less terorganisirnya family functioning, as we all know parents as primary educators at home should be monitor and educate their children properly. when all functions of a parent does not run then it would catch a lot of children outside the customs house for less filterasinya diasup by a child.
Many of the Talk Many Achievements
If you are a parent who has been blessed with Allah talkative child, then be thankful and make your child a lot of talk a lot of achievements, when we see successful people in this world they are also composed of children who talk much, when we mention one by one Oprah Winfrey is a successful example in the event confidante to the international level, so as to invite him in a certain event event organizer jahu days must schedule and pay rates are expensive, the second to Indonesia we know the local Sherina Munaf, music presenter who has a distinctive sound timber , just as happened in Operah Winfrey to invite Choky in an event we need to match the schedule and pay the cost of expensive too.
So if we can direct those who have verbal intelligence Inshallah their success can be easily achieved, how??
Talk Anything you do not ever try to limit the children who have verbal intelligence, why because it may interfere with psychological pressure. Then what?? The answer is let them talk about anything and at any time if necessary, make a kind of reporter every day to your news reader, for example they can about the incident during school or another, their desire would desire you can also channeled valuable information from the activities of your children.
Teach your children to reason Verbal or linguistic intelligence has a record of his brain power is very strong so ask questions that contain the questions therein so that they can make sense of the answer, do not give them the answer can only answer yes or no but give questions that make them will think long and explain at length.
Repeating a story often to invite our children walk a different place every week or every month after that try to submit meets these challenges to your child fatherly menceritaka vacation trip back from early to late with a tape recorder to record your voice, how it can also help sharpen Verbal intelligence of your child.
Believe any lack of what we have received from Allah is a tremendous advantage that is not necessarily owned by others, and do not look at one eye on your child's weaknesses, this article may be useful. Distributes your input and suggestions to the facebook group, or click on the wonderful success of our blog or http://rumahhypnorelaxation.co.cc http://www.wonderfulsuccessmotivator.blogspot.com
Mengulang Kisah seringlah mengajak anak kita jalan-jalan ditempat yang berbeda setiap minggu atau setiap bulan lalu setelah itu cobalah anada ajukan tantangan kepada anak anda unutk menceritaka kembali perjalanan liburannya mulai awal hingga akhir dengan anda rekam dengan alat perekam suara, cara itu juga dapat membantu mengasah kecerdasan Verbal anak anda.
Yakini setiap kekurangan dari apa yang telah kita terima dari Allah Swt adalah sebuah kelebihan yang luar biasa yang belum tentu dimiliki oleh orang lain, dan jangan memandang sebelah mata tentang segala kekurangan anak anda
Yakini setiap kekurangan dari apa yang telah kita terima dari Allah Swt adalah sebuah kelebihan yang luar biasa yang belum tentu dimiliki oleh orang lain, dan jangan memandang sebelah mata tentang segala kekurangan anak anda
